Bob and I used to travel quite a bit before Caelan was born. Most of you know that we lived in Alaska for a while, and every break we had was spent going somewhere. This changed quite a bit once we had kids. We managed to squeeze in a few trips when Caelan was a baby, she has always been a very easy going kid. But the arrival of Garrett put a major crimp in our ability to go anywhere. He is very active and has a difficult time adjusting to new situations, and Bob and I both find it stressful at times to go anywhere with him. I am still surprised that we brought him to China. Lia is sort of unpredictable, but in general enjoys going to new places, and as long as she has her "cozy blanket" and an unlimited supply of milk for her bottle, she is pretty content.
We used to camp and backpack quite a bit and both of us have been to several National Parks. We decided that this summer would be a good time to start the tradition that we had hoped to continue when the kids were babies of going to a new National Park every summer. Neither of us had been to Shenandoah National Park before and it seemed a manageable drive so it was decided to go there.
The first day we drove 8 hours to New Stanton, Pennsylvania, where we stayed at a hotel, swam, and went to dinner. The next day, we drove a short distance to Idlewild Amusement Park. The kids loved the rides, until I brought Garrett on "The Spider." He was terrified and everybody at the park knew it.
After the park, we went to Bedford, PA, to rest up before making our final drive to Virginia.
W arrived in Shenandoah on Sunday and stayed at a hotel in Luray, VA for three nights. The first day in the park, we went on a hike up to Mary's Rock. Bob and I took turns carrying Lia in the Ergo, but both Caelan and Garrett did the 3 mile hike with ease. Garrett came down looking like an accident victim with all of his cuts and bruises, but it didn't phase him at all.
The next day, we went to the Luray Caverns, swam in the afternoon while Lia took a nap and then went for another hike in the evening, with a man that Bob works with, Greg, who also was visiting the park. On the way back to the hotel we saw a mama bear with three cubs close to the road.
Tuesday morning, another hike was planned with Greg, but Garrett insisted that he "wasn't going to go hiking for the rest of his life." By this time he realized how cut up he was- and he was just really crabby, so I decided to stay at the hotel with Garrett and Lia. Bob and Caelan left and we went put-put golfing and swimming.
Garrett felt better later in the afternoon, so we did make it for another hike, up to Little Stony Man. Hiking on cliffs and mountain sides was a bit nerve-wracking for both of us, especially with Garrett bouncing up the hill and us trying to keep up with him the whole time, but we did it.
We left on Wednesday and made it all the way back to Michigan, and stayed with my mom at their cottage. It was a great trip and I am amazed at how well they did in the car. Where should we go next summer?
Here are the rules: Bold the things you’ve done and post on your blog! 1. Started your own blog 2. Slept under the stars 3. Played in a band 4. Visited Hawaii 5. Watched a meteor shower 6. Given more than you can afford to charity 7. Been to Disneyworld 8. Climbed a mountain 9. Held a praying mantis 10. Sang a solo (yes, I did, at tryouts for a play at the Community House- I did not get a part) 11. Bungee jumped 12. Visited Paris 13. Watched a lightning storm at sea 14. Taught yourself an art from scratch 15. Adopted a child 16. Had food poisoning 17. Walked to the top of the Statue of Liberty 18. Grown your own vegetables 19. Seen the Mona Lisa in France 20. Slept on an overnight train. 21. Had a pillow fight 22. Hitch hiked 23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill 24. Built a snow fort 25. Held a lamb 26. Gone skinny dipping 27. Run a Marathon ( I ran an 8K, does that count??) 28. Ridden in a gondola in Venice 29. Seen a total eclipse 30. Watched a sunrise or sunset 31. Hit a home run 32. Been on a cruise 33. Seen Niagara Falls in person 34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors 35. Seen an Amish community 36. Taught yourself a new language 37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied. 38. Seen the Leaning Tower of Pisa in person 39. Gone rock climbing 40. Seen Michelangelo’s David 41. Sung karaoke! 42. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt 43. Bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant 44. Visited Africa 45. Walked on a beach by moonlight 46. Been transported in an ambulance 47. Had your portrait painted 48. Gone deep sea fishing 49. Seen the Sistine Chapel in person 50. Been to the top of the Eiffel Tower in Paris 51. Gone scuba diving or snorkeling 52. Kissed in the rain 53. Played in the mud 54. Gone to a drive-in theater 55. Been in a movie 56. Visited the Great Wall of China 57. Started a business 58. Taken a martial arts class- Remember Tai Chi, Beth??!? 59. Visited Russia 60. Served at a soup kitchen 61. Sold Girl Scout Cookies 62. Gone whale watching (when I was a kid, didn't see any whales though) 63. Got flowers for no reason 64. Donated blood, platelets or plasma (blood) 65. Gone sky diving 66. Visited a Nazi Concentration Camp 67. Bounced a check 68. Flown in a helicopter 69. Saved a favorite childhood toy. 70. Visited the Lincoln Memorial 71. Eaten Caviar 72. Pieced a quilt 73. Stood in Times Square 74. Toured the Everglades 75. Been fired from a job
76. Seen the Changing of the Guards in London 77. Broken a bone --pinkie finger of my right hand 78. Been on a speeding motorcycle 79. Seen the Grand Canyon in person 80. Published a book 81. Visited the Vatican 82. Bought a brand new car 83. Walked in Jerusalem 84. Had your picture in the newspaper 85. Kissed a stranger at midnight on New Year’s Eve 86. Visited the White House 87. Killed and prepared an animal for eating 88. Had chickenpox 89. Saved someone’s life (well, I like to think so, I have had to call 911 several times). 90. Sat on a jury 91. Met someone famous 92. Joined a book club 93. Lost a loved one 94. Given birth to a baby 95. Seen the Alamo in person 96. Swam in the Great Salt Lake 97. Been involved in a law suit 98. Owned a cell phone 99. Been stung by a bee
Garrett is officially finished with preschool. For all of you who are wondering, it was Bob who originally pushed the idea of Young 5's for next school year. I finally got on board with the idea, even though all three of the kindergarten screenings that he went to said that he was ready for kindergarten. So Young 5's. It is a half day in our district, as opposed to full day K in Bob's school. Well, Bob seems to have changed his mind and now thinks that we should send Garrett to full day kindergarten at his school. Sigh... Hopefully we will make a decision soon.
This year Caelan was in three dance classes, tap, ballet and jazz. Next year, she will be adding hip-hop to her schedule, and even Lia will will be taking ballet. So cute! Here is Caelan (and friends) in their recital costumes.
I have really slacked off on this blog, but I did want to put up a couple of pictures of Garrett's new toy. I was pretty excited when I found this Gator at a garage sale for $40. It has definately been the best $40 I have ever spent. It is his "pre" ring bearer's gift, as he was pretty sure he didn't want to be the ring bearer at my brother's wedding in August, because it was too "embarrassing" to wear a suit. He has since changed his mind:-)
This is the expression on his face after he first saw the Gator in the shed!
Lia celebrated her third birthday on Saturday. We had a small party at a park with some Bay City friends on Saturday and then on Sunday, Bob brought the kids to his parents. There was a graduation party over there but I went to a bridal shower for my brother and his fiance.
It has been one year since we were handed a frightened and shocked 23 month old girl at the Civil Affairs Office in Guangzhou China. Look how much she has changed!
We have been extremely busy, but I plan to update the blog more often in a couple of weeks. We have a 10 year old child from France staying with us right now, and I am doing my very best to keep my house in order while she is here!
Well, Lia has been with us now for 11 months! She has changed so much. She will be three on June 6 and I am considering sending her to preschool for a couple of mornings next year. We are back to working on the potty training, though Garrett's current preschool said that they would take her even if she wasn't quite potty trained. We are still undecided about what Garrett will do next year, kindergarten or young fives.
We just had a week off for spring break. We decided to visit Bob's family and then go to Chicago. After that trip, I feel like I may never leave the house again. Well, I guess I need to center trips around play lands and swimming pools. Garrett doesn't really enjoy museums and restaurants. We drove most of the way, but then took the train into Chicago, we spent quite a bit of time at the Lincoln Park Zoo. Caelan and I went to the American Girl shop. We saw my brother and his fiance. We ate great food, and went to Navy Pier.
Well, my computer has been on the fritz ever since I installed a new printer. Finally, after spending hours troubleshooting, I unplugged all of the USB devices, and unplugged the power for the night and YAHOO! my camera and printer appear to be working once again.
Things here are going much better. With the weather starting to get a bit nicer, we are all in a better mood. Lia went in for her speech evaluation and oddly enough a week before hand started talking in sentences! She went from never speaking more than one word at a time to speaking in 3-4 word sentences. She does not qualify for any additional speech services. She is having less extreme tantrums lately too.
Garrett has gone to two "kindergarten" evaluations. Both have said that he is very well prepared for kindergarten. I am not convinced. He put on a good show. He is pretty smart- but can be a real pain and flat out refuses to do traditional kindergarten tasks like write and sit:) I am leaning towards young five's- he won't be 5 until mid- July, but I guess I am still undecided.
Caelan is gearing up for her visitor- a 5th grade French exchange student from Paris who will be staying with us from the end of April to the end of May. We are all very excited to have her:) She also has her dance recital in May, and she will be making her first communion, reconciliation and confirmation all in April. Whew. It will be pretty busy the next couple of months!
Well, here are some pictures from Lia's first official hair cut (I cut her bangs a couple of times) and Garrett's trip to the Dow event Center to see Monster Jam- a monster truck event.
I am sure that most of you already know about Carrie and the loss of her sweet daughter MJ last fall. Well, shortly before MJ died the Kreuer's accepted the referral of another sweet girl from China. They are currently trying to raise some money to help bring Anna Grace home.
I never got around to loading the pictures from my old computer to my new one when we moved in 2005. I still have no idea where the pictures from Garrett's first year are, I am guessing I had them all on CD, but here are some picures of Caelan when she was a baby. Actually for some reason I am having a hard time opening most of them- but here are a few!
On Saturday we had a little party with our local FCC group, actually it is FACT (Families with Asian Children Together). We ate breakfast, the kids played games, and did some crafts. It was only the second event that we have attended since bringing Lia home. All of the kids had a great time.
Oh, and just to go along with my earlier post, I have allowed Garrett and Lia to bring in their tractors (which normally stay outside).
I feel like it has been forever since I posted. Things have been fine here, though I am so ready for winter to be over. We are all quite crabby. Thankfully, we have had a few days of decent weather and I have been able to get the kids out to play and ride bikes.
Lia is going to be further evaluated for additional speech services. I feel like she is still doing wonderfully picking up new vocabulary, but she is having a hard time combining words together. She very rarely puts two words together, so I am hoping that some additional speech will help. I talk to her constantly and repeatedly try to get her to repeat what I say, but my attempt to get her to say "more milk" always comes out as "milk" or "more" but never them both together.
I have to admit though, Lia has been having somewhat frequent and pretty extreme tantrums. I am trying to work through them and when she is really mad, I hold her and try to get her to settle down. I think part of the problem is that we just haven't been able to get outside much this winter. Everybody is stir crazy. Cold and snow is one thing, but it has been extremely cold. I also keep reminding myself that she is two. She has been hitting quite a bit and so far, I have not found an effective way to get her to stop.
Potty training is at a standstill. She was doing great- in fact at Christmas I thought she was totally potty trained- but she has definitely decided that she prefers diapers and at this point, I have given up. Once her mood improves, I will attempt it again, but right now I just feel like she has enough that she seems to be working on.
Oh, and to be quite honest, Garrett has also had a hard few months. He is a child who needs to be outdoors all of the time, and then he is simply an angel. But coop him up in a small house all winter and watch out. I have done my best, we go to the library at least one a week, go swimming once a week, play at the Mc Donalds playscape, children's museum, but it is just not enough. Bob thinks that we need to buy a farm...
I am going to do a more cheerful post with pictures from our Chinese New Year celebration in a few minutes so I don't leave you all with my venting.
Well, it hasn't quite been a year, but on Friday it will be a year since I wrote this post. I can remember waiting for that call, it was excruciating... knowing that we had a child out there and not knowing who she was or where she was. What a relief it was to get her file and her pictures, but then the wait started again as we had to wait until May 5th to hold her in our arms. We knew nothing about her except that she was tiny and was a sound sleeper. She is still a sound sleeper- in fact at 6:45 every night she asks to go to bed and then skips happily to her crib!! She usually wakes 12-13 hours later. But now, we know her pretty well.
1. She loves chocolate, actually all sweets, but she is particularly fond of chocolate. Here is a picture from when I told her she could have no more chocolate. She was going to do whatever it took to get more chocolate. Now, I wouldn't normally take a picture of a crying child, but she was definitely "faker" crying, it may look like she was upset, but the minute I said, "Do you want to play?" she was done.. Note the chocolate dripping from the sides of her mouth.
2. She really likes band-aids. Whenever she asks for a band-aid I give her one, but she has caught on to the fact that the other two kids do not always get a band-aid when they ask. Here was our conversation yesterday: Lia: Band-aid? Me: Why do you need a band-aid? You are not hurt. Lia: Owie. Bleeding. Ok, so I gave her one.
3. She is still very attached to her bottle, though at the suggestion of our pediatrician who thought that 3/4 of a gallon of milk was too much for a child, we started mixing her bottles half with water. We still can't leave the house without a bottle, but she is drinking much less now.
4. She has to do everything that Garrett is doing. It is pretty funny as he has always been sort of a loner and isn't thrilled when other kids enter his personal space. She has to sit next to him thigh to thigh, plates touching.. I was trying to video her scooting closer to Garrett, while he kept scooting away. Ignore her slapping me- we are running around chasing each other moments earlier and she was still trying to play.
5. Again, she goes to bed without any complaints and loves her crib, but sometimes she doesn't fall asleep right away. The girls' bedroom is attached to a main living room, and sometimes if I am walking by (we keep the door open when it is cold because there are no heat ducts in the kids' bedrooms), Lia will yell out "Mom, doing?" Meaning "Mom, what are you doing?" It cracks me up every time.
6. She likes wearing the least amount of clothes that she comfortably can. I don't know how many times during nap time I have gone into her bedroom and found her naked and bouncing around in her crib. She also wants to wear PJ's all day long. I usually let her when all we have to do is drop off and pick up Caelan from school, but it is a fight on the other days to get her dressed.